Robert Gardner (1801 - 1876) & Helen Alexander (1801 - 1880)
James married Margaret Lockie in 1802 and Robert was born very soon after this.  At the reading of his banns James was described as being from Carnwath, a small village on the southern edge of the Pentland Hills, about five miles to the east of Lanark, but Margaret was from Lanark, and that was where they married and had Robert. One of Carnwath's few buildings of note was the Wee Bush Inn where Robert Burns spent the night when travelling along the turnpike from his home town of Ayr to Edinburgh. As Burns died in 1796, he might not have visited when James lived in the village, but James may well have worked on the turnpike. Lanark, however, was an important market town, which, apart from its greater opportunities, had important visitors of its own. On 20 Aug. 1804, shortly after James and Margaret had made it their home, Samuel Coleridge, William Wordsworth, and his sister Dorothy, came to the town and described it as showing "a sort of French face, and would have done so more, had it not been for the true British tinge of coal-smoke; the doors and windows dirty, the shops dull, the women too seemed to be very dirty in their dress. The place itself is not ugly; the houses are of grey stone, the streets are not very narrow, and the market place decent." 
For the first twenty years of their marriage Lanark was being watched by men of influence across the world. A mile south of the centre, a huge mill had been built at New Lanark. Originally built in 1785, and powered by the river Clyde, the mill was part of about two thousand people's lives, including over five hundred children, often as young as five years old, who had been brought in from the poorest areas of Edinburgh and Glasgow. In 1799 a young Welshman, Robert Owen, who had already been running mills in Manchester, married Caroline Dale, the daughter of the owner of the New Lanark mill, and set about changing the way the mill ran. Child labour was banned and child care centres were set up; workers were no longer required to buy their food and other goods at inflated prices from the mill shops; and some of the savings were passed on to the workers themselves. Owen had been influenced by men such as Jeremy Bentham (although Owen's increasingly socialist approach caused problems with Bentham) and New Lanark achieved national importance. By 1818 Owen had set up education centres for his workers whose lives, by the standard of the day, were almost idyllic. Visitors from across the globe included statesmen and royalty, such as Nicholas, the future tsar of Russia, and the good behaviour of his workers and their families was renowned.
If James did not work at the mill, he may well have been unaffected by what went on, but he and Margaret must have been aware of what was happening. In fact we can't actually be sure that the Gardners remained in Lanark as we have no sightings of them at all until the baptism of Robert's first child in Carnwath in 1824. However, we can be sure that the Alexander family were growing up a few miles further north, in a village called Carstairs. Walter Alexander was a tailor who had not followed his father's profession, a wright; but the family had been in the village for some generations. He had married Agnes Cuthbertson in 1796 before having at least eleven children there over the next twenty years with Helen, born in 1801, one of the eldest. Neither family would appear to be particularly prosperous, although the Alexanders were more craftsmen than labourers, whereas James Gardner appeared to be the latter.
Robert Gardner, however, was more ambitious. He and Helen moved around between Bothwell and Cambusnethan/Carnwath, the village where his father had been born as they slowly moved up the social ladder. They received a small inheritance from Helen's aunt in 1833 (Robert was a 'servant' in Cleland) and in 1836 he is listed as a subscriber to Holytown Church which was built in 1836. in 1841 he was still listed as an agricultural labourer (although one that could support ten children); and ten years later he remained a 'farm servant'. But within five years he had become a tenant farmer on a farm of just over 70 acres, back in Holytown near Newarthill; and there the family remained. Newarthill was very much a mining area but Robert's farm was large enough to support his large family, but small enough that his sons had to find other occupations to earn heir livings, such as becoming spirit merchants and joiners. Whittagreen Farm on the Hamilton and Edinburgh Road only required Robert to have two other workers living on site, but his detailed will when he died in 1876 shows that he made enough money to save some; and he clearly owned at least some of the land, to say nothing of the 'two horses, two carts...' and various other farm equipment. He may not have been a rich man when he died, but his determinatin meant that the seeds of his descendants middle-class lives had been sown.
- The only evidence we have for James' occupation is his son's death certificate, so it may not be true - particularly in 1802 when Robert was born. There is a James Gardner of the right age living in Carnwath in the 1841 census (he died in 1849) but he is married to a Cathrain Gardner. They had married in 1815, so it's possible that James' first wife, Margaret, had died and he remarried. However, I have found no evidence for Margaret's death at any time; and the 1815 marriage does not say that James was a widower.
- Neither Robert's nor any other baptisms have been found for children of James and Margaret. Apart from the first reading of their banns, no other evidence has been found for their lives after 1802. Robert gives Lanark as his birthplace in 1861/71, but he gives 'Rown, Lanark' in 1851. I have not been able to find out where Rown is, although I did wonder whether it was a corruption of R Owen, the man who started the New Lanark Mills.
- Recollections of a tour made in Scotland in 1803 by Dorothy Wordsworth
- This would be the Gardner church for generations. His son was on the Communion Roll in 1860 and Robert himslef was on the Roll until his death. For Helen, his son William's daughter, the church was an important part of her life and she gave both time and money towards it